The Teacher

And we are back to the elementary school, where we were spoon fed with all the values and knowledge, reciting with the teacher and writing in our notebooks, with a pencil.

Gone are the days and here we are, where teachers talk just in the name of deadlines. The priorities have changed, to get the marks for fetching a good job!

That’s all, right?
But there’s more to life…

Think about it.

A teacher is the one who teaches us a thing or two, someone who imparts knowledge for the betterment of the society.
But why to limit that to a person alone? Why to remember that vigor of a person only?

Biggest teachers of all? I call it, Life. In fact, many of us do and agree!

Some call it a game, some call it a teacher. We’ll talk about it for a game sometime else, here it’s our best teacher in this one!
Some say the teacher is very harsh. It’s hard to decode what the teacher intends to say! Whereas, others tend to enjoy it’s saying! Yet, there are people who live being least bothered what this teacher has on offer!

No matter how the teacher behaves with you, his sayings have one or the other lesson hidden into the words, it’s just that we are careless as students.

He’s like a drama teacher, with innumerous props to act with. Yes, Props. These props are the emotions. Sometimes, it is Sorrow, followed by Joy. Someday it has dilemmas on offer. and we have to act accordingly! Just like Face Masks! Yet we get affected and see as if they become one with us…
It is just that we don’t seem to like it always.

Neither do we like the monotony of these emotions, yet we tend to get disturbed with the transitions Strange, isn’t it?
But there are seldom the moments where no lesson is involved. whether we like it or not, we are thrown upon by these emotions to test our metal, sometimes irrespective of our comfort zones, sometimes in a pampering and comforting manner.
Ever noticed how a fly tastes honey or something sweet and sticky? Yes, the fly keeps its wings in the air, drinks the honey and flies away. Now, had the fly got her wings wet into the honey, it would have got her wings spoiled forever and would have never been able to escape! it would have got trapped! Same is with emotions.
Consider those emotions and situations to be the honey. Till the time you keep your wings, or the real self away from the situation, easier will it be for you to get through the transition of situations by the course of time, without getting much affected and also having the best of experiences!

You won’t learn to fly, unless you are pushed out of the nest.
And when life does the same for your betterment, you overthink “why”, instead of looking for the apt action required. Bursting the bubbles does hurt, yet helps in viewing the things which were present always, yet hidden.

Now, you’ll ask, where i got this observation from? well, there could be many sources. this particular one was shown by my spiritual Guru, more like a tuition to be at par with the exams that follow.

But, I believe, if you’ve got the vision, hunger for extracting the best of learnings, Life is not that bad for a teacher.

Just seek for the reason of a particular situation being thrown at you and you are sure to come up with your response to it, to play it safe!

Moral of the abstract, you ask?

Life is the best teacher. We just have got to have that vision to neutralize things in the first place, seek for the reason behind the situations and that itself gives the key, to what life demands us to act like or learn from it. This helps in adapting accordingly and with much ease, leading one to strengthening the mindset and bearing whatever life throws upon one.

Hence, being a keen observer and lesson-hungry will set the mind free from worry and pain, supported by ingredients of optimism and Compassion and life will be much easier, to enjoy the stay…

None has escaped the class alive! And yet we choose not to accept the truth and live in pain.

Pain was just a symbol from life’s side, demanding change to be reflected in one’s character. It is just that, one chooses never to pay heed.

Rise above your demons, see the broader picture. The pieces of your fix lie in the riddle itself. You are being too anxious to look at it. Just pause, see and let it go.

And the credit for all this, yet again, goes to the great teacher, named, Life…



Feeling heavier on the inside? Searching for a way out? Yes, you yourself are the key. It’s just the Expression that makes you let go of that and keeps you going! Give a read here…

One of the things that I find myself pathetic at, when it comes to expressing it out live. Have suffered so many times now that, it had become mandatory “to express” it out here now.

Expression. Conveying your thought, mindset or some message through one or the other medium is named as expression. Well, that was its formal side. But is it actually so?

Think about it.

As humans, we are blessed to have emotions, along with the possession of the languages to portray them. Irrespective of the emotion, be it sorrow or happiness, be it anger or pacification. Be it thankfulness or any other that is meant to be stated by the heart, it has to be expressed.

As I mentioned above, “…meant to be stated..” Yes, we all have emotions, but only few exist to be kept within. But, when to express them then? Emotions were never meant to be buried within the heart. It makes it heavy for the person to live with it! We all have faced it innumerous times.

Expression is very important! Else, it itself makes the existence of that emotion futile! No doubt we all have certain emotions to be kept to ourselves only due to the existence of our insecurities, but if we are so uncertain of the arrival of our end, what makes us keep that inside? What makes the point of hiding the emotions?

Expression is the way out. It lets you out whatever lies inside. The medium doesn’t matter, what does is the purity and lack of adulteration till it reaches the person or thing it is meant to be.

Art forms stand out to be a perfect medium of letting out one’s imaginations. Be it anything! From painting, dancing to modern art and music! They give us the colours to portray ourselves inside out, with zero hesitation and feel the freedom of life. It sets us free from what actually restricts us, binds us.

Once you are through with the Expression, you are free from its degradation within and feel lighter than ever!

In my case, its music. Be it any mood, any colour of the reality being observed, any contrast that dwells within, music is the perfect medium for me to let that instantaneous hue of life out and get free from it. I feel it more, I listen to or sing the songs accordingly and get my fix. The musical notes of nature and frequencies coincide with that of mine, as if they create a person himself who’s there to share the conflicts, the pain or the happiness. Doesn’t it happen with you too?

You get to experience the abstract of others’ lives through those frequencies. Even the monotonous nature varies from person to person, depicting one’s state of mind. You get to know one’s sufferings, one’s experiences, one’s dilemmas and one’s learnings, which can be shared in that way!

Credit for all this goes to expression. Had the person not let it out, it would have corroded the soul from within. There are certain stages where they eat you inside out and leave nothing behind. What would you prefer, convey the feeling meant to be? Or let it have you…

When none appears around, it’s the expression of that feeling in one or the other way around to find your fix. No matter what it could be, no matter how intense its effect may be, it has to be let out one or the other day. So why not be it today, where even the very next breathe is haunted by uncertainty?????

And you see, the musicians, actors, dancers, painters, writers etc., are the people who have been successful in life, as they sought the perfect fix for their emotions to be expressed in the right direction! They paved the ways out and used that sense of being true to themselves so beautifully that it created their big names to be remembered forever. It not only shaped their careers, but helped them live a life less ordinary. That’s pretty fascinating!

Be it speech, texts, pictures, paintings, gifts, music, fitness or any other worst of all kind of a medium, that defines you the best; just take it for a weapon and let it out. It’s now or never. And better make it now, for the gift of life is meant to be lived, not let go in vain…..

First person vs Third person

Indian movies tend to always describe the hero as “I never get defeated” kind of a guy. “Bole toh apun toh galat ho hi nahi sakta, samne wale ki hi galati!” And the “saamne wala”, the villain, has to pay for his sins.

But does the same ideology apply to the life? Are we all the heroes and heroines of our respective lives in almost all the situations? Think about it….

We are taught to feel like the Dabangg heroes of our own lives and so, we lead it that way. In a way or so, we actually are, when it comes to working hard and achieving success. 

But what happens to us when we argue with others, is not desirable in a hero. We always see what we want to see but never prefer to see what’s right. Point of views may differ, but there are situations where we refuse to accept the justified and righteous thing. 

It is because we are the heroes and we are always right. That “heroic” sense is the first person. We perform actions and judge them in the first person. We miss out at the real definition of a “hero” But is it right? Ask me and I’ll say,” Not always, dear!”


Whenever arguing with someone or while pondering upon some important confusion in life, think of yourself as a third person, for a while. As if, your mind and soul resides in some other unbiased body, which is simply witnessing your life and is well aware of the concerned events. That state of mind results in one of the best decisions of life! 

People have forgotten to put their feet in the others’ shoes! They have forgotten to question themselves as follows:

  • What if the other person is right?
  • What if it’s my mistake? 
  • If it is, why am I afraid to accept it?
  • And if it’s not, how can I calm the other person down and make him realize the same?
  • What’s stopping me from being fair?


Hence, thinking as a third person makes you realize your mistakes and helps you in analysing your actions. Applying the analysis of “Third person view” (just like a third empire in cricket) into the first person character is the key to solving many of life’s problems.

The above image says it all..

Keeping calm and a thoughtful mind are not the signs of weakness, but that of wisdom. They’re a boon that allow you to analyse yourself, before you could act. That avoids mistakes in life and helps you in building a bold and regret-free character. 


  • Prefer third person view over first and apply the conclusions on first person.
  • Questioning yourself for the sake of analysis is very, very important.
  • Keep your calm, for it lets you think!

Being a hero implies to analysing your mistakes and looking forward in mutual development in life. You don’t always have to prove the other person wrong, but believe in the unbiased right decisions. 

Strength lies in avoiding your mistakes in the first place and accepting and correcting them in the second. And not in loosing your temperament.

Mind of a Third person and implementation in the first person always win…