The Choices

Life. Our best known teacher throws several opportunities and lessons for us to learn and grow. However, it isn’t bound to work in that direction really, unless we want it to work. The growth is just a step away, a decision short between our present self and at what the life indicates. Ever faced this dilemma?

Think about it!

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We often come across things, people, situations, and then, our own behavior with or within any of these factors and elements, but we seldom get to the point where we realize the potential of these choices. These opportunities that we get to choose in different forms and moments shape us. Has it ever occurred to you, that you face the same situation and scenario again and again, unless you learn out of it, grow out of it?

Exactly, that’s the choice I’m talking about. Because, these choices hold the potential to change our perspective forever. They attack us, break us, make us ponder upon our actions, our choices of words in those scenarios, that reflect our inner self; and ultimately, they Build us.
Yes, that’s how you grow. Those are some of the stages that you undergo once you make the right choice.

Fine! I won’t go into what’s right and wrong. But definitely, I’d like to point out the things that let us be our present incomplete or misguided selves, or transform into a better version of ourselves.

But not to forget the after effects of these thoughts. One may be drawn deep into the ditch of self-doubt and pity. Please remember, that these are just the momentary halts that we encounter as a result of clutching too stiffly of our past self.

The moment we make the required choice, that leads us to the evolution of that aspect or perspective of life, we feel as lighter as ever. It’s the ultimate reward that follows these tough, questioning choices that life keep from us, until we are though the process.

The need to contemplate these choices is what one needs to have the most clarity of oneself, which stands to be another reward of our struggles to the choices.

And it all narrows down to just a single choice. Okay, multiple choices there may be.

So, keep analysing, realising these situations, and choosing the options meant for you. For if you don’t choose now, you may or may not get to choose later.

Again, as they say, the choice is yours..